How to win friends these days

Not only

Darkness,distance,ignorance and hatred,

But also
Bright light, Intimacy ,Complete understanding and passionate love

Shatters proper understanding and relationship.

These days I am happy with
Just sufficient light,
Just acceptable closeness
Just the acquittance and
Love without possessiveness.

I find more number of friends around me
And some of them are closer than ever before.

(Translated from Tamil from Mr. Ramani's blog.)

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